Welcome to She Makes The Rules

• This website has been created to support strong women, and the men who love us. We do this by creating a community in which we can be supportive of each other so that couples and members seeking a partner can create more fulfilling relationships.  You are welcome here regardless of whether you are in a long term marriage, dating or single.  What we do ask is that you enter with an open mind, taking what assists you, while realizing that others may have a different idea as to what creates a happy relationship for them.

  She Makes The Rules (SMTR) is not a website for pornography of any kind.  We are a website with a forum for discussing our potential or existing relationship; difficulties we might be experiencing or questions we have.  Some of you may be reading this at the behest of a partner, while others will have found us in a search engine or from another website.  Please be assured that this is a website created by women and run by women.  We strive to keep this site friendly to all adult women, regardless of age, background, relationship status, etc.  If you are here to find a 'thrill', you will not find it. What you will find is real people who are working on real life relationships and want to be happy in their every day lives. We are just like you!

  To the right you will find links to pages that discuss more of our philosophies and what this site is about.  

  Be assured we are NOT a typical membership website. Our forum is free to all adults of legal age, but we do have enhanced features available for those who choose to assist in supporting this site.

  We do expect you to take the time to read our rules and expect that you will follow them.  All registrations are approved by, and all new posts are moderated for appropriate content by site administrators.  We do this to to insure new members have a clear understanding of our rules and what we consider appropriate content, to help control potential spammers, and to help us thwart those who would take advantage of our members. We expect that all posters adhere to the rules of what we consider appropriate content for this site.